KAPPEL 2010

09.01.2010-10.01.2010
2 day we were in courses of "Ke Arah Mahligai Bahgia"...introduced by my lil sist yati..n also sponsored by Yati..heheh..thankyou very much...many benefit we get from that course...the main thing i get from that is about "MAN"...how to handle the person who name "Ahmad Ridzuan" hope after this can avoid  "perang" against us...hehehe...

Sudah Lumrah Lelaki dan Perempuan adalah berbeza:

Lelaki
*Memimpin
*Membelanja

Perempuan
*Taat
*Memelihara.

REMINDER!!!!fOR ALL WOMEN

1) If our husband back home with "bad look" of face...don't u ever ask them "why" just let him n give the water only...let him talk with us first then he will be ok...

2) Don' t force him to choose the thing especially about colour...he will not recognize the colour ...they all just know the basic colour...

3) When we give the instruction to do something...don't simply just talk bal...bla...n bla...he will not remember all those things...we must said one work to another work...he only can remember 2 things in once...don't push them to be like us..

4)When man in the home, just three main thing in his mind....
  *Eat
  *Play
  * Sleep
so that when we want to discus about our past 8hr of the day..let him know to just hear  before he reach at home..so,he will prepared for that....then he will be the good listener for us...

5) Shopping is the best thing for women..but not for men..so that when the men can't accompany we to go for shopping...its normal..when we want to make sure he not bored when join us shopping...

*take him for eat first even he just eat at home...
*give them the trolley so that he can play with it...
*give time to him to look about the man thing if he start bored..like DVD,Computer things & etc...

6) Man like to blamed others although his own fault..example when he drive,then accident or  something happened... at that time, we must at his side...we must also blamed others...so that the man will get "happy of herself" but...we also must discus about that at the right time...or just forget it...when we blamed him he will feel angry for that...

7) Our Responsibility is to conduct our family...husband is to lead our family...so that we must plan our conduct of code at home..ask our family to follow all the rules...or all the code that we have...Wife is the role model of family...husband will lead us..Create ur own culture of family...
Exp:If U want ur husband lead u in Solat do it from the beginning of married...
Read the Al-Quran together...