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Sunday, January 31, 2010

...Mati Itu Pasti...

Semalam kami pergi menyaksikan pengembumian Ibrahim..sungguh syahdu...Ibrahim Li di Tempat aku berkerja..meninggal dunia disebabkan kemalangan jalanraya...first time dalam sejarah Mozzaz ada kemalangan melibatkan kenderaan opis...dan kematian..syahdu sungguh...ptg jumaat hujan turun dengan lebatnye...jalan licin..pajero yang dinaiki hilang kawalan..menyebabkan pajero twist beberpa kali...3 org tercampak melalui pintu berlakang pajero...sungguh dasyat..Arwah menghembuskan nafas terakhir di Hospital Batu Gajah...setelah bertarung nyawa hampir setengah jam...semasa mendapat panggilan telefon dari staff lain..dia sedang tenat..setengah jam kemudian arwah telah pergi buat selamanya...

Arwah seorang yang peramah walaupun baru 29 hari bersama nya..seperti sudah lama mengenalinya...sedih..arwah merupakan anak keempat dari tujuh orang adik beradik...sangat kagum dengan kedua orang tua arwah..sewaktu mereka tiba di Hospital BAtu Gajah dari Serdang Perak...mereka langsung tidak mengetahui bahawa arwah telah pergi...dalam pukul 9.00 malam Ibu n bapa arwah sampai...Doktor yang menyampaikan berita kematian arwah pada Ayah arwah...amat tenang ayah arwah...perkataan yang keluar dari mulut ayah arwah adalah"Tuhan Lebih sayangkan dia"  Ya ALLAH...bertapa tabahnya mereka..sedikit pun air mata tiada kelihatan di muka mereka...sungguh kagum... Ibu arwah menghidap darah tinggi yang kronik...namun bile mendapat tahu khabar mengatakan bahawa arwah telah pergi...dia tabah dan mampu tersenyum hanya mengatakan.."semua telah di tetapkanNya..."

Andai ini yang ku hadapi...aku tidak setabah ibu bapa arwah...aku menunggu sehingga arwah di bedah siasat tuk dibawa pulang ke rumah atok arwah di Kuala Kurau...kul 2 pagi kami sampai di rumah...aku tak leh tidur..terbayang muka arwah yang suka senyum ..."Ya ALLAH Tempatkatlah Ibrahim Bersama Orang2 yang soleh...Amin..

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

...Really Like iT...


just a few second i get present from my lovely hub...very nice...i like it...guess what i get??? i get mickey mouse...hehehe..big tahnk to my hub...for the first time i get card from him...even it just small card..it enough for me...tahnk my lovely hub...n i hope you can do as u was write in that card .....thanx again...




Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Our Weekend

23.01.2010
Decide go to KL at 6.00pm..after didnt know where to buy the CPU + hard disk+pendrive with best price at Ipoh...around 7 oclock we went to Kuala Lumpur...plan to sleep at Diah's House...meet zahra...si comey...before went to diah's house eat at Santai Cafe...Air Bandung Special is my favourite drink at there...hehehe...Yati came to us for a little discussion about her problem...

24.01.2010
This day is our 6 month anniversary..thank God & hub for a wonderful life...went to sarah house...meet Dina..so comey...Dina is 2 month now...she cant sleep because she like to see people...congrate Sarah...all my fren now be a mother..n have such a wonderful life....congrate....hope one day to be a mother too.....
Lunch at Restoran in front of MAsjid near Diah's house...Then go to Low Yat Plaza to find all the thing we need..hahah...Back to USJ around 8.00pm...so tired...fetch my Opah before back to Ipoh...so sad cant see Alya Batrisyah at Mak Su house...huhu..Arrived at Ipoh Around 12.15am...so tired n sleepy...zzzz...gut nite..

Special thanx to my hub coz give me time to meet my fren...very happy..

Saturday, January 23, 2010

8P (UNTUK YANG SUDAH DI ALAM RUMAHTANGGA)

1. P yang pertama ialah 'puji' iaitu setiap pasangan perlu saling memuji antara satu sama lain dalam semua aspek kehidupan seperti masakan atau ucapan terima kasih apabila diberi pertolongan.

2. P kedua ialah 'peluk' yang mana pasangan suami isteri hendaklah selalu peluk memeluk antara satu sama lain sekerap mungkin pada setiap hari kerana pelukan itu adalah belaian penuh kasih sayang. 

3. P ketiga ialah 'penghargaan' di mana amalan memberi hadiah boleh menambah kasih sayang. 

4. P keempat ialah 'perhatian' yang mesti diambil berat kerana kekurangan perhatian boleh mengakibatkan pasangan terasa diabaikan. 

5. P kelima mewakili 'persefahaman' kerana sebagai manusia yang bekerjaya memerlukan pasangan lebih bertolak ansur dan memahami kerjaya masing-masing. 

6. P keenam membawa maksud 'pergaulan' iaitu pasangan suami isteri mesti menjaga pergaulan masing-masing dengan orang lain bagi mengelakkannya daripada melampaui batas, menimbulkan cemburu seterusnya membawa kepada pembabitan orang ketiga. 

7. P ketujuh adalah 'percutian' di mana seseorang itu perlu merancang percutian berdua-duaan dengan pasangannya di tempat yang jauh daripada kesibukan dan kehidupan rutin atau gangguan lain
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8. P yang terakhir ialah 'permohonan' iaitu doa kepada Allah supaya merapatkan kasih sayang antara pasangan suami isteri serta dijauhi daripada godaan kemewahan dan keseronokan dunia. 

 Amalan doa selepas solat yang boleh merapatkan hubungan dan menimbulkan kasih sayang antara suami isteri iaitu membaca surah Al-Imran ayat ke-31 atau membacakan ayat ke-200 surah sama.

Kunci kebahagiaan rumah tangga yang sebenar ialah mendekatkan diri dengan Allah.

Apabila seseorang insan mengabaikan tanggungjawab terhadap agama, dia akan mengabaikan rumah tangga kerana jiwa yang kosong.

"Ketika kita jauh daripada Allah, iblis yang suka umat manusia bercerai berai akan menghampiri dan melalaikan kita daripada tanggungjawab terhadap keluarga," katanya.

Khusus buat Suami Ku: Ahmad Ridzuan Mohd Tap


Moga Perkahwinan kami kekal selamanya...
24.01.2010 genap 6 bulan perkhawinan Wan_Aida

WANITA SOLEHAH

WANITA SOLEHAH….
SENANTIASA TENANG JIWANYA
LANTARAN ITU SENTIASA MEMBESARKAN TUHAN DI DALAM SOLAT
DAN SUNNAH RASULULLAH JADI JALAN KEHIDUPANNYA
MENJADI AKHBAR DAN HIBURAN
JANJI-JANJI ALLAH JAMINAN KETENANGAN BUATNYA
SUMBER JIWANYA BEROLEH KEKUATAN
AGAR SABAR MENENTANG MUSIBAH


BERTEGUH MENJUNJUNG HUKUM HAKAM ALLAH


INILAH WANITA SOLEHAH
TIDAK MEMBIARKAN DIRI
MENJADI BUSAR PANAHAN SYAITAN
DIPERALATKAN UNTUK MENGUMPAN KAUM ADAM
MEMANDANGNYA....
MENYEJUKKAN MATA.....


DIRINYA TENTERAM
MEMBIARKAN HIBURAN
KIRANYA IA SEORANG ISTERI
KEPERIBADIAN MENGHIBUR SUAMI


SENTIASA MENGUNTUM SENYUM DI HaDAPAN SUAMI
SANGGUP HIDUP BERDUA MATI BERSAMA
LANTARAN MENGHARAPKAN KEREDHAAN ALLAH SEMATA-MATA
MEMADAI DENGAN APA YANG ADA
TIDAK PERNAH MENUNTUT APA YANG TIADA
MENJADI TULANG BELAKANG PERJUANGAN SUAMI
HINGGA SUAMI MERASAKAN RUMAH ITU SYURGA
MENJADI KEKUATAN JIWA
UNTUK MENEGAKKAN JIHADNYA



NATIJAHNYA, 
 LAHIRLAH JIWA SAKINAH
BERNAFSUKAN MUTMAI’NAH.

‘SEINDAH HIASAN ADALAH WANITA SOLEHAH

SEKADAR RENUNGAN BERSAMA..

Sultan Johor Mangkat


Sultan Johor Telah Mangkat...Tuhan Lebih menyayangi Dia...penah beberapa kali jumpa dia live in my fren wedding...Takziah to Ahli Kelurga Baginda...



Sedekah kan Al-Fatihah Buat Duli Yang Maha Mulia Sultan Iskandar...


Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Bla...Bla...Bla...

Tak tau nak tulis pe...keyboard fani ni best membuatkan aku terasa ingin menulis....hahaha...malam ni nak p tgk adnan sempit for the second time...heheh memula dah tgk ngan joned first day kuar wayang...best gile cerite ni..tak kering gusi di buatnye...hahahah..my chikaro...Di mana ada kemahuan di situ ada highway,,,beso maksudnye......hahah..tadi pagi si fani kepingin makan pizza...so aku pun buatkan lah tuk dia...peh kejap jek abis...kuat melantak betul depa ni...lunch balik umah...amik kepok ikan...bawak p opis...dalam masa 5 minit...si pirana opis telah menghabiskannye..power betul dorg makan ...hahah...
Klah nak balik keje dah...nak ngemas ...heheheh

Sunday, January 17, 2010

Akhirnya

Tersedar dari kealpaan....baru ku tahu...aku pernah berjanji denganNya...namun aku tidak mengikutnya...alpa nya diri ini...indahnya idup berteraskan ISLAM..A-I-D-A STAND FOR Anak Islam Dunia Akhirat...akan ku ikuti nya...setelah sekian lama diri ini alpa...ku pohon agar diri ku kuat untuk bangun dari kealpaan ini...Ku bersyukur masih belum terlambat untuk diri ini ke jalan Nya...ku pohon wahai suami...adik-adik ku...ibu bapaku...bimbinglah aku...kamu semua sumber kekuatan aku...Doakan ku tetap kuat meneruskan perjuangan ini....


Bangun pagi ni..terasa sangat sakit perut...mintak tlg my hub...dugaan DariNya...terbaca entry my adik..."andai aku berhenti" mendalam maksudnya...tersedar dari kealpaan...aku harus meneruskan kerja ku selagi itu adalah tanggungjawabku yang utama di Syarikat itu...moga aku kuat...moga perkhwinan kami dipenuhi dengan iklim Addin...ku Pohon Wahai suami...bimbinglah diri ini...Tiada yang lain ku pinta dari mu hanya bimbingan agar kita sama-sama ke Jannah di akhirat kelak...

Friday, January 15, 2010

Kemana arah

Lately not have good mood...huhuh dont know why...very lazy to complete my Profit N Loss To send for audit...why???? huhuhuhuhu sometime i feel to continue my study...sometime i feel to be full time housewife...but i cant do that....many commitment i have.....but why i am very lazy at this company????i have no answer for that...always ask my hub..."can i quit"...this company is very bored...how long must i work at this company?????

Turnover of employer come n quit are so bad...that why i feel to quit too...maybe because not have more benefit like others company....why???? i think top management have to more concern about their staff.....but????? uhhhh

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

About Women

Important thing "husband" must know...

1) Nowadays women have their own career just like man...man must help women at home.Don't be angry if she love to talk...talk...n talk...it is her nature..just accept it.. help she even in the small thing at home...it will make big meaning for her..

2)When she talk about her feel o work...just hear..don't cut o give any idea if she not wanted to do that...just hear...

3)Join she at least once a month to go shopping..."niat" to see she enjoy..when she enjoy n have happy life..your life automatically will effected...

4)5 thing that husband must do if he in house but she not in...
* Buang Sampah
* Vacum the house
* Lipat Baju(Even a little is enough for her)
* Kemas Katil
* Sidai Baju..

5)Be with her when she get pregnant..give she a support..until the baby come out..

6)Hold her hand when walking, shopping,sleeping o wherever u are..do it until the end of life...

7)Must celebrate your Anniversary...to discus your feeling...o anything else about your family...must discus the "standard of procedure of your family" . You have to have it....

8) Always said "thank" or "sorry" to her even in small thing...


Hope all the tips will help you to make happily family ever after....

KAPPEL 2010

09.01.2010-10.01.2010
2 day we were in courses of "Ke Arah Mahligai Bahgia"...introduced by my lil sist yati..n also sponsored by Yati..heheh..thankyou very much...many benefit we get from that course...the main thing i get from that is about "MAN"...how to handle the person who name "Ahmad Ridzuan" hope after this can avoid  "perang" against us...hehehe...

Sudah Lumrah Lelaki dan Perempuan adalah berbeza:

Lelaki
*Memimpin
*Membelanja

Perempuan
*Taat
*Memelihara.

REMINDER!!!!fOR ALL WOMEN

1) If our husband back home with "bad look" of face...don't u ever ask them "why" just let him n give the water only...let him talk with us first then he will be ok...

2) Don' t force him to choose the thing especially about colour...he will not recognize the colour ...they all just know the basic colour...

3) When we give the instruction to do something...don't simply just talk bal...bla...n bla...he will not remember all those things...we must said one work to another work...he only can remember 2 things in once...don't push them to be like us..

4)When man in the home, just three main thing in his mind....
  *Eat
  *Play
  * Sleep
so that when we want to discus about our past 8hr of the day..let him know to just hear  before he reach at home..so,he will prepared for that....then he will be the good listener for us...

5) Shopping is the best thing for women..but not for men..so that when the men can't accompany we to go for shopping...its normal..when we want to make sure he not bored when join us shopping...

*take him for eat first even he just eat at home...
*give them the trolley so that he can play with it...
*give time to him to look about the man thing if he start bored..like DVD,Computer things & etc...

6) Man like to blamed others although his own fault..example when he drive,then accident or  something happened... at that time, we must at his side...we must also blamed others...so that the man will get "happy of herself" but...we also must discus about that at the right time...or just forget it...when we blamed him he will feel angry for that...

7) Our Responsibility is to conduct our family...husband is to lead our family...so that we must plan our conduct of code at home..ask our family to follow all the rules...or all the code that we have...Wife is the role model of family...husband will lead us..Create ur own culture of family...
Exp:If U want ur husband lead u in Solat do it from the beginning of married...
Read the Al-Quran together...

Tuesday, January 12, 2010


 



 Sekitar gmbo makan di Gazebo &
Besday My Hubby...Hepi Besday Dear

Thursday, January 7, 2010

05.01.2010

This that is our anniversary wan_dot for 4yrs 5month...05.08.2005 we started share our feel,love,caring,happy n sad things..past 4 yrs we were studied at UUM same couse but not same class just law subject we were in same class..after twice i  in relationship with other boy...i was found him..before this both of them is "terengganu" then i found him(Ipoh mali)heheh...

Alhamdulillah he is my destiny...now we are married..hope till the end of our life..thank my hub for the wonderful dinner at Excelsior Ipoh..thank...so delecious the food...thank my hub...
Hope to get again in the next month...ngeeee...different hotel...different food..cay..ngeeee...

Hari hari ku

02.01.2009
*my besday boy today nak ajak g jejalan...p anto yati ke City Squre...then kami jejalan sekejap kat san...erm...tak brape best tak tau nak tgk pe....n beli pe..huhuhu  so kami ubah tempat ke Jusco Tebrau..kat sana p usha Tv...hehehe...for my mom...tapi tak jumpa yang berkenan..then  p tgk sandle my hub..he got one his favourite sandle....then round until iam tired...huhuhu..on the way back ...we look tv shop at Jalan Melodies...buy one for my mom...then back home with the new tv...heheh..after maghrib go to Restoran Singgah Selalu at Danga Bay..not bad the food at there..back home with full tank especially my hub hahaha...

03.01.2009
* will back to Ipoh...huhuhu..so sad...i want to live at Johor Bahru...(note to my hub) huhuhu...in the morning my mom prepared for us Mee Hoon goreng..so delicious..then at 12.00 o'clock we started our jouney back to Perak..sent yati to Teluk Intan first..at 10.00pm went to MIL house first...then back home at 12.00pm..zzzzzzz

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Macam2

* New Year 2010
-now i am 26 yrs old...wow..dah meningkat tua...last day in 2009 something bad happened among us....huhuhu very sad..i am sory hus...so sori...hehe..30.12.09 also maksu dapat cucu pertamanye..girl..tahniah dayah & farid...

-01.Jan.2010
5 am drive back to Johor Bahru...thank my hub....hehheh...drop at Kuala Lumpur to fetch my mom n my lil sist...around 10 am straigt to Johor Bahru...1.00 pm arrived at Larkin ...my hub went to Jumaat Pray at there me,yati n mom roung at Pasar Larkin..hahah mcm tak penah pergi plak...kahakakaka..
Had lunch at there...Sedap gak pakcik tu masak...terbuka selera ku tuk makan nasi...tapi nasi goreng lah...still tak leh makan nasi putih lagi...huhuhuhu

Then back home...peh seronok tul...playground at the back of my house dah tukar baru...peh comey tul...my hub tak lepaskan peluang bermain buaian ...hahaha terlebih had umur dah....

Malam makan dinner at Gazebo Restaurant....peh best suasana dia...makan also not bad...suara penyanyi pempuan tu best giler mcm siti...

Sebelum p makan kat Gazebo...singgah jap kat Giant..heheh...planning Nak Alihkan pandangan my hub..coz my lil sis n my dad want to buy hub's cake...then i n hub go to Pharamcy...hehe...sory dear...

at 11.15 pm my hub got surprise..my dad blackout the house..the me,yati n mom bawak kek sambil nyanyi lagu "ALLAh selamtkan kamu"...my hub besday...Happy Besday Ahmad Ridzuan...actually on 2 Jan 2010.